Saturday, 14 March 2009

Why am I still single?

Ever since my last relationship, I have always been asking myself what have I done? How did it happen? Why am I still single? There is no answer... only a 'shrug'.

I have been single for almost 3 years by now. I could not understand why girls are just not attracted to me. I have done what I can, I do my best in everything, but my effort does not pay. I am deeply frustrated.

Everyday, every night, every minute and even second, I ask God, why all this misfortune must falls on me. I have not done anything cruel. I did not snatch little kids' lollipop, nor I did burst their colourful balloons. But why must my life be so miserable?

Everyone who is reading this... I am really sorry for being emotional. Thanks for all your care and love. (Although my tail often got pulled/stepped). Thank you for being there for me.


After a period of time investigating and analysing the cause of my problem, it came with a conclusion.


At last I know what's been wrong... It solved all the questions I had all these years... It is pretty shocking to know how or why it happened.


No one can actually predict it, nor we can do anything about it.


No one will know when it will happen.


Because....





Shit happens!

(My stupid cupid always bang wall, how I get new partner lea? =D)



Happy White Day!

White Day is a holiday celebrated on March 14, one month after Valentine's Day in Japan, South Korea and Taiwan. White Day is a day as an "answer day" to Valentine's Day on the grounds that men should pay back the women who gave them chocolate and gifts on Valentine's Day.

23 comments:

Cyrus said...

Why am I still single? 2

AaronxLee said...

Maybe i should make a post like yours. Im still single. =[

Anonymous said...

why, what is wrong being single? :)
Single life is good! Cheer up!

Victoria said...

omg! im single too~lol what turf

eh let's do single night out la aaron and cicak!ROFLMAO!

and omg!aaron is selfpromoting here!xp

xu.xu.moi said...

single is good ah, more freedom
love costs money, you know?

Anonymous said...

Trust me, you will find your right partner by this year. I bet you can get one. Try to open your heart and see around, she might be just around you. Just you need the trigger to turn on the relationship. Good luck!

Anonymous said...

lol happy st. white!

c@nEy said...

its never too late to realize what had gone wrong but at least its good to hear that you actually made that effort to analyze what actually gone wrong with you or the relationship...

patient pays off my dear...you are still young...open up your eye and look around...the ONE might just be next to you =)

cheers and hugs *pat lil cicak's head*

Josh said...

Well, considering you been single for 3years only, its not really that bad lar... Someone been single for wayyyyyy longer than you. And you know what? You will find the right girl in your life, its just a matter of time. You might even already have one right in front your eyes, so cheer up! ^_^

Jorge said...

Dude, I have been single for 23 years and....i'm 23 years old this year. I hope you feel better knowing somebody like me is worst off lol.

Yes people please feel sorry for me. I know I suck. No I'm NOT gay. In fact I love girls very much lol.

Fyn said...

lol, single is still not that bad la. though sometimes you really have that idiotic feeling of "lonliness" acting up. but you will feel better after that acting up is over. haha. I'm like single for 3 yrs plus liao. nobody wants me but hey, i'm still alive okay! my latest post also about this kinda emo emo stuff de. lol.

Isaac Wong said...
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ChiroBie said...

Nice post I think. And funny one haha!

Sorry for not being serious like others, but I think its a funny post LOL.

I never heard of the existence of White Day. And your cupid is CUTE =p

Abt sending you a resume, I think its a lil lame lehhhh... lol

Anonymous said...

LOL have you heard of the song, stupid cupid.... girls will come to you, a girl will love you. BTw.. being single means FREEDOM!!! I've been single longer than anyone ever know. Cheers!!!

Anonymous said...

oh btw, let me know if there's any single night out. Tag me along, I always love the view over looking the city lights at night, drink and tell tales of yesteryear. Haha!!

JoyJoy ! said...

LOL !!
good one xD
im single too but im happy ! ^^

ichimaru akira said...

Erm,sometimes being single is frustrating but I like to be happy than being in love for the sake of love.

CWKen said...

chill dude, sometimes things happen when u least expected it to be. Sometimes the more u look forward into sumting, the more it'll stay away from u. Life's like that. I'm a living example =)

Being single isn't bad at all really! U get to enjoy certain privelege while ur single ;)

Also sometimes when u keep looking for that someone, desperation is written all over ur forehead somehow and girls somehow sees that? so chill out, relax, enjoy the company u have and someone will eventually come to u ;)

Elly said...

LOLS =DD
Came across your blog through innit nuffnang..UR nick "little cicak" caught my attention ..sounds like my friend's nick...and ur post title "why am i still single" makes me wonder too. But found out that the reason quite lame=.="
Erh..anyways single is not bad though..better enjoy the time of solitude before fate arrives. Cheers.

Anonymous said...

Haha. I guess I'm in the same boat as you too. >3 years and still soulmate-less. XD

Life's unfair to us, eh. Haha

CherliN :: Tzia said...

I don't understand why am I still single either. sigh!

ZB said...

enjoy your single life till you meet the right one :)

-[aLbY]- said...

*swt* send in resume pulak! Please la...whack 9 u then u know! Stupid cupid banging on the wall as an EXCUSE pulak! Go happy hour, lets get lectured together! I guess i need to know WHY too! :P

-[aLbY]-

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